[kids] halal and no msg

[nirwana]
oki run to me with a hand full of chocolate, "papa, is it okey to buy me one, there is a halal sign and no msg", my five year old boy asking for a snack. no wonder for me, my kids asked me like that as i tried to embed deep in their head that we can only eat halal food and msg can make us stupid as it is a toxic for our brain... and it works.

when we go to hypermart or carrefour to buy goods, they will ready to fill up their basket with candy and snack. i do encourage them to set how much they want to buy and i have set them such boundaries: known brand with halal sign and no msg. eventhough sometime the manufacturers manipulated msg with mono sodium glutamate or mono natrium glutamate. sometimes my kids pointed out on the ingridients that there is no "msg", but i clarified that msg is similar with mono sodium glutamate or mono natrium glutamate, as written in ingredient.

sometimes, i let them to buy one, specially when oki asked something that crossing my boundary. he will keep asking me "please, papa ... just once and i want it so much ... please papa". but now, the kids have better understanding.

while for me and my wife, our boundary is more stringent - we will seek "halal food" from legal MUI and "made in Indonesia" is most preferred goods. I gave up using Mobile-1 and use Fastron of Pertamina, I keep buying Pertamax instead of Shell or Petronas fuel gas. I selectively buy Cadburry to avoid "made in Malaysia", never bought Pantene of Thailand and buy Dove or Clear of Unilever.

Later, I will educate my kids higher after moving class from "halal with no msg" to "legally halal, no msg and made in Indonesia".

Thing that I keep buying regularly is K Link product as some product is made in Indonesia, Malaysia, USA or India.

[Me] 5 days behind my 40

{Tanjung Barat}
Following is special comment from my boss as Central Coach, Walt in Houston related my movement to other position...

Muiz,
I appreciate your comments and have enjoyed having you on my team. You have made a huge impact in a relatively short time and I thank you for your efforts and contributions to our team and the asset. I have spoken to her and agree with the decision to move you to the Director of Organization Capability (DOC) role. I am confident that you will do an outstanding job and it is an important role. The MOC is the key next step and I believe that your time will be best spent working on that. I will be making future visits to Jakarta and we will have the opportunity to meet and discuss more face to face. Muiz, I will take your call at 9am Houston time when you call.
Regards,

It's relieving to have support from him as he was welcoming me good when first I joined this global central coach, but now I have to leave this to another role.

Both is global role - I will be road warrior globally in this or the other role.

Thanks, Walt

This is my last posting related my new job.

[Me] 5 days behind my 40

[Nirwana]
January 30, 2007 or 5 days behind my birthday, there was announcement about me for new position after last than a year assignment in Central Coach ... a global role for operation excellence. I have to move to other position as a director in one of directorate in this company. I am sure this is good for my carrier, but the challange or "risk" & "price" are significant if i can perform this.

Eventhough the effective date is March 1st, but the announcement 5 days before my 40 is like special gift for the Lord, Allah the Almighty.

My friend share this to wider group, following is their comment
:
"Congratulation..!! atas penugasan yang barunya. Wish you all the best. " Ali

"Selamat ya pak Direktur ...", Irawan

"Selamaaaaat ya Bosss! Semoga sukses selalu...!", Jacob

"Congratulation!", Ato - Aberdeen, UK

"Bos direktur selamat ya... jadi nih kita beli perusahaan .....", Herry

"Congratulation for your new roles and believes you will have a Great Success in the future.", Doddy - Papua

"Selamat ya pak Direktur, harus ada pesta perpisahan dan peresmian nih!", Erna

"Kami ucapkan selamat atas promosi tugas baru !
Semoga bisa membawa amanah ini menjadi berkah dan manfaat bagi diri sendiri, keluarga, teman, perusahaan, bangsa dan negara. Amin !", Rudy

"Congratulation for the New Position Thumb Up", Triyanto - Zulu

"Selamat ya atas pengangkatannya sebagai Director...Sesama alumni, bangga juga ketambahan anak Boedoet jadi pejabat di *****....", Eka, USA

"aku juga saluuut sama kamu udah jadi diangkat jadi Director. Hidup Boedoet....... ehhh salah..... Bravo Muiz", Lies, USA

"Selamat atas Jabatan Baru " Semoga semangkin sukses " dan diberikan kemudahan dalam menjalankan tugas barunya, Amin", Sugeng, Lima

"Selamat ... pak Direktur ...", Junizar

"Congratulation, congratulation, congratulation......
Whatta a new position... Pak Direktur ! That's great !", Bayu

"Semoga tugas barumu bisa diemban dengan baik dan mendapat ridloNya. Keberkahan dan kesuksesan semoga selalu tercurah untukmu", Sudar

"CONGRATULATIONS ! Semoga sukses dan berkah. Kapan syukurannya ?", Widayanto

"Congratulation on your new assignment.", Satya

"Selamat Pak Muiz, semoga selalu mendapat kemudahan dari Allah dalam menjalani amanat yang baru", Henky

"Selamat ya atas penugasan diposisi yang baru semoga suksus selalu.", Ronald

"Mas Muiz, Selamat utk posisi barunya. Semoga sukses selalu.", Susi

"Congrats Pak Muiz! Wish you all the best in your new challenging assignment.", Toto

"selamat ya Muiz!!!!! you know you have my support and let me know how can i do that..
take care and good luck", Mona

"Wah, ini mah bukan sembarangan orang lagi.........
Girector...bo.......
Hope you can enjoy the new roles with every success", Sang

"SELAMAT buat Pak Muiz dengan posisi yg baru OOCD", Mang Jo

"SELAMAT PAK DIRECTOR MUIZ, JANGAN LUPA UNDANGAN MAKAN2NYA", Poltak

"Selamat atas tugas baru yang lebih menantang. Sukses selalu !", Djamal

"Selamat buat Muiz.... Kita semua sih nunggu acara selanjutnya ..... he-he-he ....", Joko

"Selamat mas Muiz atas tugas barunya ini, insya Allah amanat, barokah, warrohmah, aamiin.", Kuntadi

"Selamat.........and wish you luck!", Rosihan

"Pak Muiz- Congratulations for your new assignment yaaa...", Donna

"Dear Muiz, Selamat untuk posisi barunya yang saya yakin akan sangat menantang.", Amri - Trinidad Tobago

"Congratulation to your new position.", Richard

"Pak Muiz...selamat atas amanah baru-nya. Semoga sukses selalu. Ameen", Dinant

"Muke.... Selamat yaaa...... Selamat Juga buat keluarga loe dong.... kayaknya Sabtu Tgl 3 Feb ini... kita bisa ditraktir nich...... sekalian ulang tahun loe Mantap & Hebat ! Kita Senang dan bangga loo ! Kayaknya loe juga jadi the Youngest Director yaa.... ", Cepi, Cilegon

"Kang Muiz selamat pak makin sukses, makin gagah, semakin inget dua puluh tahun ternyata sangat singkat......", Eki

"Selamat menjalankan tugas baru semoga sukses selalu….Pak Direktur.", Topan

"Mukeeee,,,,, Salut gw ama elu..", Kucay

"Selamat Pak Director", Gede

Disclaimer: This is for personal record use. Name printed here may not be you eventhough you have the similar name.

Me: New Year and New Assignment

[January 23]

Finally another year has gone with the wind ... I am older than a year ago. Thanks to the Lord for all happiness and sadness, for all things He has given me, He has taken from me and He has left for me.

This year is special for me and always, 2007, 1997, 1987, 1977 and 1967 ... seven is my magic number. Just several days ahead, I will be fourty ... too old to make a sin and too young to die.

Beginning of the year, I have expected to get a new position after one year assignment as Central Coach, working with global community. I shared this news to all my Central Coaches in world wide, as I will not attend the 2007 annual global meeting in Houston for next two weeks. Following is their comment:

Mark, Aberdeen

Muiz,
Thanks for your note, it's been good to work with you briefly at the conferences in Houston.
Good luck in your new role.
Regards, Mark

Jerry, Deputy Manager, GOM DeepWater

Congratulations and best of luck to you Muiz!
Thanks for all your help in the past.
Jerry

Bill, Baku, Azerbaijan

Best of luck Muiz. You've been a great contributor to the Team.
I wish you well.
Bill

John, Houston

Muiz,
I wish you well and hope to see you again someday. I thought you did a powerful job moving things forward in Jakarta. Take care of yourself and if you ever need anything please let me know. Best wishes and good luck.
Your friend, John

Alan, Houston

Congratulations, Muiz! You'll do your usual excellent job, I'm sure
Alan

Greg, WhytchFarm, UK

Good luck, and keep in touch.
Regards,
Greg

Maricruz, Houston

Muiz, good luck in your new job!!!!!!!!!!!!! To bad I only met you once.
maricruz

Paul, Houston

Muiz,
The word is finally out, and the "fight" is finally put to an end. Selamat yah atas penugasan barunya. I know you'll do your best there as you did with the project.

Bob, Regional Manager North Sea

Muiz,
Good luck and don't forget your friends in the Common Process team as you move onwards and upwards!
Bob

Shelly, Alaska

Congratulations Muiz!
I wish you well in your position. I know you will do a great job!
Shelly

Alan, Edinburg UK

Great news Muiz !
Sorry I won't see you next week but "one of these days...." You never know.

Thanks for all comments from my friends, I hope I can deliver this new assignment better. What kind of assignment is it? at least it is upward move and also still working with global community.

[Islam] News in BBC about Kenya's 'Koranic fish'

Kenya's 'Koranic fish' recovered
By Odhiambo Joseph
BBC, Mombasa


The tuna fish with what looks like Arabic writing on its side

Enlarge Image
A fish with markings that resembled a Koranic text has been found by Kenyan officials after vanishing from the fisheries office where it was stored.

The tuna fish, which had provoked intense interest from Muslims, had apparently been stolen by people posing as National Museum officials.

The fish was found at the shop where it had first come to public attention.

The fish was being studied to find out if the Arabic inscription "You are the best provider" was natural or a hoax.

Sceptics say the writing was the work of someone who caught the fish and then threw it back into the sea.

But others say this would be impossible, and local imams are said to have been talking in the mosques about the fish.

Heritage

The owner of the Takaungu Fish Shop in Mombasa's old town is being questioned by police, who are also seeking another man in connection with the alleged theft.

Close up of the marking on the tuna fish (Picture taken by the BBC's Odhiambo Joseph)
The text is close to the Koranic verse: "Wa anta khair al-raziqin"
The shop-keeper said a man had brought the fish to him for preservation.

Over the weekend, people thronged to the shop after the owner noticed the tuna fish's remarkable markings.

It had been caught by fisherman Said Ali at the end of last week at Vanga, a small fishing port on the Kenyan coast, 50km south of Mombasa.

For safekeeping, the 2.5 kg (five pound) fish was moved to the fisheries department.

After being asked by Muslim leaders in Kenya, Kenya's National Museum had offered to take custody of the fish and preserve it for the country's heritage.

The reported theft followed numerous attempts by locals and Muslim scholars to buy the mysterious fish.

An official at the fisheries department in Mombasa said someone had even offered to pay as much as $150.

Under normal circumstances the fish would fetch not more than $6.

[My Family] BOYZ ii MEN

[Nirwana]

Next Sunday, December 17th 2006 - we will have a small party to celebrate all three boys after circumsition surgeries.

Zaki, Noval and Oki will be the center of attention for a day, where family, neighboor and friend mingle for this event.

Yes, you are also invited.

[Indonesia] Spirit Yahudi di Indonesia {menjawab persiapan pemerintah mengubah UU perkawinan}

[Tanjung Barat]
Teriring doa yang tulus untuk saudaraku Teh Ninih, Teh Rini dan Aa Gym beserta keluarga. Semoga Allah menjadikan sebuah keluarga yang Sakinah di dunia dan akhirat. Sesungguhnya setiap celaan adalah berkah dan rizki di akhirat, dan pastinya yang mencela tidak lebih baik daripada yang dicela. Tabah lah, sesungguhnya kaum munafik dan kafirin tidak akan senang seseorang melakukan Islam dan sunnah Rasul dengan baik. Sesungguhnya, cukup bagi kita Allah lah pelindung kita dari makar mereka terhadap Islam. Saya meyakini Islam sebagai ajaran yang benar dengan segala aturannya. Tidak tahukah mereka bahwa Allah sangat membenci terhadap orang yang mengambil sebagian dan menolak sebagian lainnya dari ajaran Allah.

Sore ini, aku membaca berita di Islam Online http://www.islamonline.net dan Eramuslim http://www.eramuslim.com tentang tokoh Yahudi AS yang menolak penggunaan Al-Quran dalam pengambilan sumpah seorang anggota Kongres yang muslim. Terbersit di benak saya, seorang menteri atau presiden yang dengan sigap menyikapi suatu masalah dengan cepat dan keliru … tentang perkawinan kedua saudara kita yang halal dan sah. Tentang penetapan aturan untuk mempersulit poligami, atau Dosen IAIN yang dengan lantang seakan menganulir sunah rasul tentang poligami -- bahwa Al Quran tidak pernah menghalalkan poligami. Saya menyamakan perilaku yang dilakukan di Amerika sejatinya sama dengan yang terjadi di Jakarta --- melawan hak manusia melakukan ajaran agamanya. Ya… spirit yahudi ada diantara kita.

Terbersit, begitulah perilaku manusia yang menetapkan aturan manusia di atas aturan Sang Raja Manusia. Mereka merasa lebih mengetahui fitrah dan hak asasi manusia dari pada Sang Pencipta manusia itu sendiri. Suatu perilaku yang sejak dahulu dilakukan oleh Yahudi, ketika di berikan perintah untuk merawat seekor sapi oleh Nabi Saleh a.s. Yahudi menanyakan dengan detail sebuah perintah yang sudah jelas dan mudah, dan akhirnya perintah itupun dilanggar dengan membunuh sapi tsb. Apakah sebagai seorang menteri bahkan presiden berani membuat aturan yang melawan aturan dari Tuhannya, ataukah seorang dosen sudah merasa pintar sehingga menafsirkan Al Quran tidak pernah menghalalkan poligami (Sedangkan Rasul s.a.w., sang Al Quran hidup --- kata Aisyah r.a., melakukannya dan membiarkan sahabat-sahabat melakukannya).

Seharusnya presiden dan menteri memikirkan lebih keras perzinahan atau segala kemaksiatan di bumi yang menjadi tanggung jawab mereka, dan tidak mengurusi aturan yang sudah ditetapkanNya. Karena kelak dikemudian hari, setiap jiwa akan ditanyakan atas sesuatu yang menjadi tanggung jawabnya.

Teh Ninih, yakinlah bahwa janji Allah adalah pasti dan benar adanya. Surga sebagai balasan seorang istri yang ikhlas karena cinta kepada Allah semata adalah cukup dan sangat cukup. Allah, melalui hadis Rasul s.a.w., juga mengancam seorang suami yang berlaku tidak adil.

Aa Gym, maka bersikap adillah niscaya itu jauh lebih baik di sisi Allah.

[Indonesia] Another Sick Story [tanggapan atas dua berita besar]

[Nirwana]

Hari-hari ini beredar dua berita yang menyangkut publik figur berhubungan dengan wanita. Salah satu tokoh dengan segala "kehormatan" dan "kemulyaan"nya sebagai wakil rakyat dan terlebih dari mantan ketua organisasi kepemudaan Islam, tertangkap melakukan perbuatan nista (untuk standar awam dan agama) yang secara sengaja/tidak tersebar luas ke masyarakat. Yang bersangkutan sudah memiliki seorang istri yang sah. Heboh satu lagi adalah seorang ustadz yang mengawini seorang janda beranak tiga sebagai istri kedua. Sengaja saya tidak menyebut nama, karena selayaknya pemberitaan tidak boleh menyebutkan nama kecuali kelak di persidangan untuk pembuktian, karena kita tetap harus menjaga nama baik seseorang bagaimanapun sesungguhnya.

Saya tidak tertarik dengan detail cerita apa dan siapa atau bagaimananya, saya lebih tertarik dengan reaksi atau respon dari masyarakat atau pemimpin kita.

Organisasi kepemudaan yang bekas pimpinannya mengajukan gugatan ke Kepolisian karena dianggap mencoreng nama baik dari organisasi tersebut!!! Suatu hal yang absurd, tapi jauh lebih baik dibanding Dewan yang "terhormat". Bahkan partai tempat dia bernaungpun masih membelanya dan tetap menjadikannya sebagai anggota dewan. Apapun tingkatan yang dia dan sang penyanyi lakukan, masyarakat seharusnya mengutuk. Ataukah masyarakat kita begitu terbiasa dengan kemaksiatan dan itu adalah hal yang biasa, meskipun jangankan berdua di kamar, mendekati perbuatan tsb saja sudah terlarang.

Berita tersebut pun dibumbui sebagai pertarungan politik di partai tersebut, atau polisi menganggap orang yang menyebarkan sebagai pokok permasalahan dan bukan orang yang menjadi "aktor" dan "aktris" kemaksiatan. Yang secara pelan dan pasti mengecilkan kejadian keji tersebut.

Lain halnya ketika berita kedua, tentang seorang ustadz yang mengawini dengan sah seorang janda beranak tiga. Melakukan dengan halal dan sesuai aturan agama dan pemerintah, dengan akad nikah dan ijab kabul disaksikan oleh orang lain. Kebanyakan orang menuntut dan menghujat perbuatan halal tersebut.

Di dalam Islam, poligami adalah diperbolehkan dan saya menyetujui, karena itu adalah hukum Allah yang Maha Tahu fitrah ciptaannya. Lebih detail tentang Islam dan Poligami bisa dilihat di situs ini. Islam menghalalkan poligami setelah zaman sebelumnya poligami dilakukan dengan tanpa batas, nabi-nabi terdahulu (Nabi Sulaiman a.s. memiliki istri lebih dari seratus orang) ataupun siapa saja bisa memiliki istri berratus-ratus (bahkan sampai sekarang seorang raja di Afrika memiliki istri lebih dari seratus orang). Nabi Muhammad s.a.w setelah sekian tahun hidup monogami dan menduda, atas perintah Allah mengawini delapan perempuan mulia dengan beragam fisik mereka (hanya satu yang gadis). Buat umat Islam, poligami diperbolehkan hanya empat dengan syarat yang berat... Adil. Bahkan ancaman untuk suami yang mencintai lebih salah satu istrinya, di akhirat mendapatkan ancaman yang tegas.

Saya yakin poligami sudah sesuai fitrah kita, begitupun juga sang ustadz di atas. Tetapi saya melihat sebagian rakyat kita lebih mengagungkan monogami dengan segala perselingkuhannya dibanding poligami yang halal. Pria yang berpoligami dengan benar adalah contoh pria bertanggung jawab. Dan saat ini saya belum mampu melakukannya.

Dengan cara berpikir dari masyarakat kita, saya melihat akan terbentuk masyarakat yang sakit ... Permisif terhadap aturan-aturan yang bertentangan dengan agama ... pelacuran, perzinahan dsbnya. Tetapi sangat garang dengan aturan Allah yang Maha Tahu. Saya cukupkan ulasan saya dan hanya kepada Allah saya berlindung dari perilaku buruk, saya cukupkan Allah sebagai pelindung saya.

[EZ LESSON] The 90/10 Principle Author : Stephen Covey

Have you read this before? Discover the 90/10 Principle. It will change your life
(at least the way you react to situations). What is this principle?

10% of life is made up of what happens to you. 90% of life is decided by how you react. What does this mean?

We really have no control over 10% of what happens to us. We cannot stop the car from breaking down. The plane will be late arriving, which throws our whole schedule off. A driver may cut us off in traffic. We have no control over this 10%. The other 90% is different. You determine the other 90%.

How? By your reaction. You cannot control a red light., but you can control your reaction. Don't let people fool you; YOU can control how you react.


Let's use an example. You are eating breakfast with your family. Your daughter knocks over a cup of coffee onto your business shirt. You have no control over what just what happened. What happens when the next will be determined by how you react.You curse. You harshly scold your daughter for

knocking the cup over.

She breaks down in tears. After scolding her, you turn to your spouse and criticize her for placing the cup too close to the edge of the table. A short verbal battle follows. You storm upstairs and change your shirt. Back downstairs, you find your daughter has been too busy crying to finish breakfast and get ready for school. She misses the bus. Your spouse must leave immediately for work.You rush to the car and drive your daughter to school. Because you are late, you drive 40 miles an hour in a 30 mph speed limit. After a 15-minute delay and throwing $60 traffic fine away, you arrive at school. Your daughter runs into the building without saying goodbye. After arriving at the office 20 minutes late, you find you forgot your briefcase. Your day has started terrible. As it continues, it seems to get worse and worse. You look forward to coming home, When you arrive home, you find small wedge in your relationship with your spouse and daughter.

Why? Because of how you reacted in the morning. Why did you have a bad day?

A) Did the coffee cause it?
B) Did your daughter cause it?
C) Did the policeman cause it?
D) Did you cause it?

The answer is " D".

You had no control over what happened with the coffee. How you reacted in those 5 seconds is what caused your bad day. Here is what could have and should have happened.

Coffee splashes over you. Your daughter is about to cry. You gently say, "It's ok honey, you just need, to be more careful next time". Grabbing a towel you rush upstairs. After grabbing a new shirt and your briefcase, you come back down in time to look through the window and see your child getting on the bus. She turns and waves. You arrive 5 minutes early and cheerfully greet the staff. Your boss comments on how good the day you are having.

Notice the difference? Two different scenarios. Both started the same. Both
ended different.

Why? Because of how you REACTED. You really do not have any control over 10% of what happens. The other 90% was determined by your reaction.

Here are some ways to apply the 90/10 principle. If someone says something negative about you, don't be a sponge. Let the attack roll off like water on glass. You don't have to let the negative comment affect you! React properly and it will not ruin your day. A wrong reaction could result in losing a friend, being fired, getting stressed out etc.

How do you react if someone cuts you off in traffic? Do you lose your temper? Pound on the steering wheel? A friend of mine had the steering wheel fall off) Do you curse? Does your blood pressure skyrocket? Do you try and bump them? WHO CARES if you arrive ten seconds later at work? Why let the cars ruin your drive? Remember the 90/10 principle, and do not worry about it.

You are told you lost your job. Why lose sleep and get irritated? It will work out. Use your worrying energy and time into finding another job. The plane is late; it is going to mangle your schedule for the day. Why take out your frustration on the flight attendant? She has no control over what is going on. Use your time to study, get to know the other passenger. Why get stressed out? It will just make things worse. Now you know the 90-10 principle. Apply it and you will be amazed at the results. You will lose nothing if you try it.

The 90-10 principle is incredible. Very few know and apply this principle.

The result? Millions of people are suffering from undeserved stress, trials, problems and heartache. We all must understand and apply the 90/10 principle.

It CAN change your life!!!

[Me] Time to Learn

[Sheraton Bandara]

Spirit that we still need to maintain is spirit to learn something new, as this is our human character. It was rapidly accelerate, when the day we born, when we were a little toddler and start slows down when we are mature. Imagine, how fast we absorbed the knowledge and the skill when we were young, our first step should be our first graduation as we learned from our fault, we absorbed critics and advice, we felt that we needed other hand, and than we decided ... yes it was the time to make a first step.

All reflects a maturity in a small little body, called a baby, we were observing not only for success but fail, we were always thinking positively, can do attitude and finally when we thought we were ready we made a giant little step, we made decission!!! That's what we were.


Later, we think that we know everything. Specially after graduated from major universities with series of tittle, professional degree or appreciation. But finally, we forgot our human character ... is to learn. We should always think that we are still learning in every aspect.

When we stopped learning, we were dying ... at least in our heart. When we learn one thing, we will found tens or hundreds new unknown.

I link all of those with our 6 day-ASSET training, where we simulated to run a small oil and gas company to implement strategy, expect the unexpected situation, including Political and prices. Six of us from AxP company, a virtual company in ASSET world that we operated, run a company with aggresive and expect progressive growth. Finally, our company produced the highest production 512 mboe compared to the other four virtual companies that produced no more than 399 mboe. Eventhough our gearing ratio was ever the highest 90% (or 10% only equity), finally we could maintain 50% with biggest asset value, share price and other financial parameters.

After 15 years in oil and gas industry, this course opened up my mind about the whole business in E&P and not only production related. I still have big question unanswered in my life, bigger than yesterday and even become bigger and bigger tomorrow.

Above, AxP demonstrated "Saman" dance from Dhang Yeng
Below, all trainees and facilitators posing

[Zaki & Noval] Another phase of their life

[Pondok Indah Hospital]
Friday, November 10 4pm

It was another flexy day for me, means I donot need to go to the office - every another Friday, I can take a flexy day. That day, we had prepared and contacted Dr. Roni, a surgery of RSPI, to conduct circumcision for Zaki (11) and Noval (10). Both were very keen and eager to do this as most of their friends have done this ceremony.

Zaki & Oki, prior surgery

Zaki, the Doctor and a Nurse

"Played" a foot ball game while in the surgery

Zaki wore short after surgery

We arrived in the hospital and went to praying room, musholla, to conduct afternoon praying, shalat ashar, and pray before we did this small surgery. Zaki was underwent the surgery first. He cried when the doctor started injecting the third shot around his and I was beside him to hug to make him warm and secure. After this, I handed over him an N-Gage to let him play the game while the doctor and nurse were doing their job.





The same procession was also held to Noval. The same cry, the same happiness afterward.

It was the time when we were ready to leave the hospital. I found Noval started crying in agony. I kept driving back to home, while kept talking to encourage him and let him cried while kept praying. For this night, I slept with Zaki and watched him if he needed any thing.

[My Family] ... The Thirteen Year At Last

[Nirwana]
Last month, our family celebrated the thirteen year of our wedding anniversary.
As usual, I was aware and will always be the day we married. Again, as usual, I am not romantic guy to celebrate this event. As this will remind me on how old I am and also how old my beatiful wife is.

That morning, I kissed her before leaving home for work... without said anything. On the way back, I got an sms from my sister-in-law: a congratulation and a pray for us.

I was leaving the office about 5pm and arrived at home about maghrib. I saw my kids run to me and said that that day was our anniversary, a day when their parent married. All three were kissed my hand and kissed me - a normal ritual for me when I arrived from work. It must be something had been prepared inside...

We kissed and congratulated for our achievement, navigated this small boat through all sad and happiness, love and hatred ... finally we could and we will keep the boat move toward the end of the day. InsyaAllah...

Inside, yes - there was a small preparation to make small party. We prayed jamaah first and held a small pray. All my kids were busy, brought plates there, moved chair here and put the candles in the cake. While I prepared several shots to freeze this memory digitally.

A picture of happy family ... at least it was for ours.

[Noval] ... Selamat Ulang Tahun Sayang

[Nirwana]

Telah genap sepuluh tahun engkau terlahir di dunia

Anakku,
Terlahir aku menamakan dirimu dengan suatu doa
Sebuah doa yang selalu tertanam dalam dalam dirimu
Anakku, Nawfal Mohammad Faruq Muiz
Sebuah doa Allah menjadikan engkau
... seorang yang bijaksana (Nawfal)
... seorang umat Mohammad s.a.w
... seorang pembeda atas hak dan yang batil (Faruq)
... seorang yang berakhlak tinggi (Mu'iz)

Sebuah doa untukmu dan sebuah tugas untukku
agar aku mendapati anakku seorang yang bijaksana menjaga yang hak dari yang batil

Tak terasa sepuluh tahun telah berlalu
Sepuluh tahun aku merangkai bagaikan sebuah bangunan
yang kelak akan engkau jaga, rawat dan hiasi dengan akhlak yang baik

Anakku,
Sungguh aku hanya merangkai dan sekedar merangkai
Membangunkanmu dari tidur untuk sahur di fajar yang melelapkan
Membangunkanmu dari lelap di subuh untuk bergegas menemui sang khalik
Menjagamu ketika engkau sakit dan menciummu sebelum dan ketika engkau terlelap dalam tidur

Anakku, yang berhati halus
Aku teringat ketika engkau masih susah makan
Aku panggil untuk duduk dipangkuan ketika kita berbelanja
Aku membisikkan ditelingamu ketika engkau dalam dekapanku
bagaimana sayangku padamu,
tetapi apakah hambar nasi yang papa beli
sehingga engkau susah menyuapnya
Aku mendengar jawabanmu hanya isakan tangis dan dekapan yang kuat darimu

Anakku, pahlawanku
Setiap jiwa pasti memiliki kekuatan dan kehebatan
Begitu juga dirimu
Engkau pernah juara di kelasmu atau menjuarai lomba renang
Tetapi tanpa ketekunan, itu sungguh susah untuk mencapainya

Anakku, hidup bukanlah mukjizat seperti Jin dan Jun
tetapi adalah sebuah perjuangan yang panjang untuk mencari ridha dari Sang Khalik

Anakku, hidup bukanlah sekedar perjuangan seperti Rambo
tetapi adalah juga sebuah doa yang panjang untuk mendapatkan ridha dari Sang Khalik

Anakku, Selamat Ulang Tahun
Semoga Allah mengabulkan doa kita
dan menjadikan engkau seorang yang sukses di dunia dan akhirat
dan menjadikan engkau seorang yang terkenal di bumi dan langit

Sayangku selamanya bersamamu dalam suka dan duka

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[World] Is Prince Charles a Convert to Islam?

An archive from other blog. Allah only sees any one's faith (imaan & taqwa) and only from Him alone, the guidance (hidaayah) we seek. I share this, only showing "the threat" of the Prince's faith and his "escapade".

In a 1997 Middle East Quarterly article titled "Prince Charles of Arabia," Ronni L. Gordon and David M. Stillman looked at evidence that Britain's Prince Charles might be a secret convert to Islam. They shifted through his public statements (defending Islamic law, praising the status of Muslim women, seeing in Islam a solution for Britain's ailments) and actions (setting up a panel of twelve "wise men" to advise him on Islamic religion and culture), then concluded that, "should Charles persist in his admiration of Islam and defamation of his own culture," his accession to the throne will indeed usher in a "different kind of monarchy."

All this comes to mind on reading an article titled "Charles Breaks Fast with the Faithful in Muscat" in today's Dubai-based Gulf News, which reports on some of Charles' activities during his current five-day visit to Oman:

He toured the Sultan Qaboos Grand Mosque for almost two hours and "took keen interest in studying various sections at the mosque, including the main prayer hall." As his spokesman put it, "The Prince was particularly keen to come to the mosque today to see the fantastic building and remarkable architecture which Prince was fascinated with. The Prince has a great love for Islamic architecture and I can't think of finer example than this mosque."
He "spent a considerable time at an exhibition of Islamic calligraphy and held meetings with Sheikha Aisha Al Siaby, Head of Public Authority for Craft Industries and Taha Al Kisri, the Head of Omani Society for Fine Arts to discuss various aspects of Islamic art."

He "broke fast with a large congregation of people from different nationalities as he sat with folded legs on the floor in the open. He ate date and drank juice at the call of Iftar."
None of this, of course, is evidence that the Heir to the British Throne has changed religions, but his actions most certainly would be consistent with such a move, and especially the implication that he had kept the Ramadan fast. (November 9, 2003)

Dec. 18, 2004 update: Prince Charles put himself in the middle of an Islamic theological issue that again could suggest his conversion to Islam – for if that is not the case, then on what basis does he opine on the Islamic law requiring that apostates from Islam be executed? Jonathan Petre of London's Daily Telegraph reports on a private summit of Christian and Muslim leaders at Clarence House on this topic sponsored earlier in December by the prince. Apparently, however, he did not get the results he hoped for, with one Christian participant indicating that Charles was "very, very unhappy" about its outcome. That may have been because the Muslims at the meeting resented his public involvement in this topic.

July 14, 2005 update: And what does the good prince have to say about the murder by Islamists of 55 in London a week ago? He put fingers to keyboard and produced "True Muslims Must Root Out The Extremists" for the Mirror:
some deeply evil influence has been brought to bear on these impressionable young minds. … Some may think this cause is Islam. It is anything but. It is a perversion of traditional Islam. As I understand it, Islam preaches humanity, tolerance and a sense of community. … these acts have nothing to do with any true faith. … it is vital that everyone resists the temptation to condemn the Muslim community for the actions of such a tiny and evil minority. If we succumb to that temptation, the bombers will have achieved their aim. Likewise, in my view, it is the duty of every true Muslim to condemn these atrocities and root out those among them who preach and practise such hatred and bitterness.

Comment: This sounds to me like the same apologetics churned out by the Muslim Council of Britain and other Islamist bodies.

Aug. 2, 2005 update: At the funeral of King Fahd in Riyadh, the Associated Press reports, "Non-Muslims were not allowed at the ceremonies." So far as I can tell, Charles did not attend the ceremonies. (There surely would have been a press uproar if he had.) We can conclude that whatever his inner faith, he is not presenting himself as a Muslim in public.
Sep. 4, 2005 update: Prince Charles revealed in a letter leaked to the Daily Telegraph that he had strained relations with George Carey, then archbishop of Canterbury, over his attitude toward Islam. Particularly contentious was his expressed intent, on becoming king and supreme governor of the Church of England, to ditch the centuries' old defender of the faith title and replace it with defender of faith and defender of the Divine. The letter reveals the archbishop's reaction.
I wish you'd been there for the archbishop! Didn't really appreciate what I was getting at by talking about "the Divine" and felt that I had said far more about Islam than I did about Christianity - and was therefore worried about my development as a Christian.
According to royal aides, Charles did not much respect Lord Carey's views and the feelings were reciprocated.

Oct. 29, 2005 update: "Prince Charles to plead Islam's cause to Bush" reads the Sunday Telegraph headline. The text by Andrew Alderson tells how the prince of Wales
will try to persuade George W Bush and Americans of the merits of Islam this week because he thinks the United States has been too intolerant of the religion since September 11. The Prince, who leaves on Tuesday for an eight-day tour of the US, has voiced private concerns over America's "confrontational" approach to Muslim countries and its failure to appreciate Islam's strengths.

Apparently, he "wants Americans - including Mr Bush - to share his fondness for Islam."
Nov. 2, 2005 update: That Daily Telegraph cited in the previous update made the rounds, perhaps even to the White House. In any case, George W. Bush had a little zinger ready for the good prince in his welcome for him and Camilla at the state dinner:

In the first part of the 20th century, our nations stood together to ensure that fascism did not prevail in Europe. In the second half of the 20th century, we worked tirelessly to defeat the totalitarian ideology of communism. And today we're fighting side by side against an ideology of hatred and intolerance to ensure that the 21st century will be one of liberty and hope.
Charles did not reply to this comment, limiting his response to projects for the underprivileged and fond memories of Winston Churchill.

The prince comes calling (drawing by Roman Gann, National Review, Nov. 21, 2005).
Nov. 3, 2005 update: Ali Sina proposes a reason for Charles' attraction to Islam, suggesting that he may be tired of democracy: "Does he secretly envy the Islamic system of government where the rulers have absolute power and can even impose morality on their subjects?"

Nov. 5, 2005 update: Sharp-tongued Julie Burchill asks in "What's not to like about Islam if you're the Prince of Wales,"
I wonder why Prince Charles seeks to big up powerful, theocratic Islam — which already controls so much land and wealth and yet will kill and kill to gain more — and not vulnerable, pluralistic Israel? Why doesn't he invest as much energy in defence of the persecuted and murdered Christians who suffer for their beliefs under Islamic regimes?
She then answers her own questions, much as Ali Sina does:
Well, I think I know why; because cleaving to Islam is the one way that men who wish to appear liberal and enlightened can promote reactionary ideas. Monarch-worshipping, woman-oppressing, non-democratic — what's there not for Charles to like!

Nov. 13, 2005 update: Charles' efforts to promote Islam does his mother no good in Al-Qaeda's eyes. In a just-reviewed videotape, the organization's number two, Ayman al- Zawahiri, calls Queen Elizabeth II "one of the severest enemies of Islam" and blames her for what he calls Britain's "crusader laws." In addition, he criticizes British Muslims who "work for the pleasure of Elizabeth, the head of the Church of England" and ridicules them for saying (his words, not theirs): "We are British citizens, subject to Britain's crusader laws, and we are proud of our submission . . . to Elizabeth, head of the Church of England."

Jan. 19, 2006 update: As patron of the Festival of Muslim Cultures, which its website describes as a national celebration of "the rich cultural and artistic expressions of the Muslim peoples," Charles will be visiting Sheffield soon. He will tour an exhibition there, "Palace and Mosque: Islamic Treasures of the Middle East," that launches the festival. The prince is said to be keen to see the exhibition. He will also meet school and community groups and watch a performance by a group of Muslim women and girls.

Jan. 26, 2006 update: The Prince of Wales expressed his pleasure today at the progress in the UK of Shar‘i banking products at a conference in London to mark the 30th anniversary of the Islamic Development Bank: "I am certain that with the support of the Islamic Development Bank my charities will be able to increase their efforts to address the challenges we face in Britain's cities and help those younger British Muslims who feel they have little or no stake in society to play a fuller part in the country's affairs by promoting community and entrepreneurial development."

Mar. 21, 2006 update: Charles weighed in on the Muhammad cartoon controversy, telling an audience of more than 800 Islamic scholars at Cairo's Al-Azhar University in what the Times (London) called a "serious, impassioned 30-minute speech" that "The recent ghastly strife and anger over the Danish cartoons shows the danger that comes of our failure to listen and to respect what is precious and sacred to others. In my view, the true mark of a civilised society is the respect it pays to minorities and to strangers."

Mar. 25, 2006 update: As the first Westerner ever to address the Al Imam Mohammad Bin Saud Islamic University in Riyadh, Saudi Arabia, Charles (as was the case in December 2004 – see the update above) chose to give Muslims some advice about modernizing their religion. Note the "we" in the following quote: "I think we need to recover the depth, the subtlety, the generosity of imagination, the respect for wisdom that so marked Islam in its great ages." He also said Jews and Christians should learn from Islamic teachings:
What is so distinctive of the great ages of faith surely was that they understood, as well as sacred texts ... the meaning of God's word for all time and its meaning for this time. … it was Islam's greatness to understand this in its full depth and challenge. This is what you ... can give not only to Islam but by example to all the other children of Abraham.

Oct. 31, 2006 update: There's been a strong reaction to a Kuwait News Agency report that "Prince Charles Tuesday said that the world problems could be resolve by following Islamic teachings, as Islam is a religion of peace and brotherhood." But a look at the speech in question, to the Fatima Jinnah Women University in Rawalpindi, Pakistan, finds no such statement. All Charles did was to quote the Koran in a favorable way in the context of a new-agey-style discussion of the Planet Earth:

This planet's survival will depend on you understanding that you can achieve unity through diversity; that you can in fact build on living, timeless traditions that are a part of your unique culture and still be "modern". It will also depend on you realizing that the planetary crisis we face is so profound in its rapidly developing consequences that we simply cannot afford to go on squabbling amongst ourselves while we destroy the world around us at a truly terrifying rate. As it says in the Qu'ran – "Only they pay attention who have hearts; only they believe (or see signs) who have hearts." Have you seen the signs? Will you trust in what your hearts are telling you?

Nov. 6, 2006 update: Umree Khan reports in the Guardian, "Why Muslims love the royals," on the Muslim response to Charles and his family:
In the wake of Prince Charles's visit to Pakistan, now is an apt time to reflect on the strange hold that royals, and he in particular, have over Muslims.
It may sound paradoxical, but it's not surprising that when Labour ministers queue up to tell modest women to take their veils off, there is a special affection for a prince whose public utterances on the subject have been marked by a sort of bumbling Islamophilia.
Charles and Camilla's visit to Pakistan was a really important trip for my mum. She is obsessed with the royal family. Lots of mums are but, really, you have no idea how big the royals are with Bangladeshi women. My friend Koruna will tell me, "You think your mum is obsessed, but I bet she doesn't have a showcase filled with royal-family china like my aunts." Of course she does - we had entire commemorative sets of Diana and Charles plates, eggcups, the works, in our living room. "Yeah," Koruna replies, "but a whole showcase in a mud-shack village in Bangladesh?"
Thousands of households in the subcontinent give pride of place to royal kitsch, and that is as much the case in the volatile Islamic states of Pakistan and Bangladesh as it is in India. A survey of my Asian mates confirms this grim predicament - the royal cult, and in particular the icon that is Diana, is being propped up by Muslim women all over the world