Thursday, November 30, 2006

[Noval] ... Selamat Ulang Tahun Sayang

[Nirwana]

Telah genap sepuluh tahun engkau terlahir di dunia

Anakku,
Terlahir aku menamakan dirimu dengan suatu doa
Sebuah doa yang selalu tertanam dalam dalam dirimu
Anakku, Nawfal Mohammad Faruq Muiz
Sebuah doa Allah menjadikan engkau
... seorang yang bijaksana (Nawfal)
... seorang umat Mohammad s.a.w
... seorang pembeda atas hak dan yang batil (Faruq)
... seorang yang berakhlak tinggi (Mu'iz)

Sebuah doa untukmu dan sebuah tugas untukku
agar aku mendapati anakku seorang yang bijaksana menjaga yang hak dari yang batil

Tak terasa sepuluh tahun telah berlalu
Sepuluh tahun aku merangkai bagaikan sebuah bangunan
yang kelak akan engkau jaga, rawat dan hiasi dengan akhlak yang baik

Anakku,
Sungguh aku hanya merangkai dan sekedar merangkai
Membangunkanmu dari tidur untuk sahur di fajar yang melelapkan
Membangunkanmu dari lelap di subuh untuk bergegas menemui sang khalik
Menjagamu ketika engkau sakit dan menciummu sebelum dan ketika engkau terlelap dalam tidur

Anakku, yang berhati halus
Aku teringat ketika engkau masih susah makan
Aku panggil untuk duduk dipangkuan ketika kita berbelanja
Aku membisikkan ditelingamu ketika engkau dalam dekapanku
bagaimana sayangku padamu,
tetapi apakah hambar nasi yang papa beli
sehingga engkau susah menyuapnya
Aku mendengar jawabanmu hanya isakan tangis dan dekapan yang kuat darimu

Anakku, pahlawanku
Setiap jiwa pasti memiliki kekuatan dan kehebatan
Begitu juga dirimu
Engkau pernah juara di kelasmu atau menjuarai lomba renang
Tetapi tanpa ketekunan, itu sungguh susah untuk mencapainya

Anakku, hidup bukanlah mukjizat seperti Jin dan Jun
tetapi adalah sebuah perjuangan yang panjang untuk mencari ridha dari Sang Khalik

Anakku, hidup bukanlah sekedar perjuangan seperti Rambo
tetapi adalah juga sebuah doa yang panjang untuk mendapatkan ridha dari Sang Khalik

Anakku, Selamat Ulang Tahun
Semoga Allah mengabulkan doa kita
dan menjadikan engkau seorang yang sukses di dunia dan akhirat
dan menjadikan engkau seorang yang terkenal di bumi dan langit

Sayangku selamanya bersamamu dalam suka dan duka

Link lain:
Ucapan dariku setahun yang lalu

Thursday, November 16, 2006

[World] Is Prince Charles a Convert to Islam?

An archive from other blog. Allah only sees any one's faith (imaan & taqwa) and only from Him alone, the guidance (hidaayah) we seek. I share this, only showing "the threat" of the Prince's faith and his "escapade".

In a 1997 Middle East Quarterly article titled "Prince Charles of Arabia," Ronni L. Gordon and David M. Stillman looked at evidence that Britain's Prince Charles might be a secret convert to Islam. They shifted through his public statements (defending Islamic law, praising the status of Muslim women, seeing in Islam a solution for Britain's ailments) and actions (setting up a panel of twelve "wise men" to advise him on Islamic religion and culture), then concluded that, "should Charles persist in his admiration of Islam and defamation of his own culture," his accession to the throne will indeed usher in a "different kind of monarchy."

All this comes to mind on reading an article titled "Charles Breaks Fast with the Faithful in Muscat" in today's Dubai-based Gulf News, which reports on some of Charles' activities during his current five-day visit to Oman:

He toured the Sultan Qaboos Grand Mosque for almost two hours and "took keen interest in studying various sections at the mosque, including the main prayer hall." As his spokesman put it, "The Prince was particularly keen to come to the mosque today to see the fantastic building and remarkable architecture which Prince was fascinated with. The Prince has a great love for Islamic architecture and I can't think of finer example than this mosque."
He "spent a considerable time at an exhibition of Islamic calligraphy and held meetings with Sheikha Aisha Al Siaby, Head of Public Authority for Craft Industries and Taha Al Kisri, the Head of Omani Society for Fine Arts to discuss various aspects of Islamic art."

He "broke fast with a large congregation of people from different nationalities as he sat with folded legs on the floor in the open. He ate date and drank juice at the call of Iftar."
None of this, of course, is evidence that the Heir to the British Throne has changed religions, but his actions most certainly would be consistent with such a move, and especially the implication that he had kept the Ramadan fast. (November 9, 2003)

Dec. 18, 2004 update: Prince Charles put himself in the middle of an Islamic theological issue that again could suggest his conversion to Islam – for if that is not the case, then on what basis does he opine on the Islamic law requiring that apostates from Islam be executed? Jonathan Petre of London's Daily Telegraph reports on a private summit of Christian and Muslim leaders at Clarence House on this topic sponsored earlier in December by the prince. Apparently, however, he did not get the results he hoped for, with one Christian participant indicating that Charles was "very, very unhappy" about its outcome. That may have been because the Muslims at the meeting resented his public involvement in this topic.

July 14, 2005 update: And what does the good prince have to say about the murder by Islamists of 55 in London a week ago? He put fingers to keyboard and produced "True Muslims Must Root Out The Extremists" for the Mirror:
some deeply evil influence has been brought to bear on these impressionable young minds. … Some may think this cause is Islam. It is anything but. It is a perversion of traditional Islam. As I understand it, Islam preaches humanity, tolerance and a sense of community. … these acts have nothing to do with any true faith. … it is vital that everyone resists the temptation to condemn the Muslim community for the actions of such a tiny and evil minority. If we succumb to that temptation, the bombers will have achieved their aim. Likewise, in my view, it is the duty of every true Muslim to condemn these atrocities and root out those among them who preach and practise such hatred and bitterness.
Comment: This sounds to me like the same apologetics churned out by the Muslim Council of Britain and other Islamist bodies.

Aug. 2, 2005 update: At the funeral of King Fahd in Riyadh, the Associated Press reports, "Non-Muslims were not allowed at the ceremonies." So far as I can tell, Charles did not attend the ceremonies. (There surely would have been a press uproar if he had.) We can conclude that whatever his inner faith, he is not presenting himself as a Muslim in public.
Sep. 4, 2005 update: Prince Charles revealed in a letter leaked to the Daily Telegraph that he had strained relations with George Carey, then archbishop of Canterbury, over his attitude toward Islam. Particularly contentious was his expressed intent, on becoming king and supreme governor of the Church of England, to ditch the centuries' old defender of the faith title and replace it with defender of faith and defender of the Divine. The letter reveals the archbishop's reaction.
I wish you'd been there for the archbishop! Didn't really appreciate what I was getting at by talking about "the Divine" and felt that I had said far more about Islam than I did about Christianity - and was therefore worried about my development as a Christian.
According to royal aides, Charles did not much respect Lord Carey's views and the feelings were reciprocated.

Oct. 29, 2005 update: "Prince Charles to plead Islam's cause to Bush" reads the Sunday Telegraph headline. The text by Andrew Alderson tells how the prince of Wales
will try to persuade George W Bush and Americans of the merits of Islam this week because he thinks the United States has been too intolerant of the religion since September 11. The Prince, who leaves on Tuesday for an eight-day tour of the US, has voiced private concerns over America's "confrontational" approach to Muslim countries and its failure to appreciate Islam's strengths.

Apparently, he "wants Americans - including Mr Bush - to share his fondness for Islam."
Nov. 2, 2005 update: That Daily Telegraph cited in the previous update made the rounds, perhaps even to the White House. In any case, George W. Bush had a little zinger ready for the good prince in his welcome for him and Camilla at the state dinner:

In the first part of the 20th century, our nations stood together to ensure that fascism did not prevail in Europe. In the second half of the 20th century, we worked tirelessly to defeat the totalitarian ideology of communism. And today we're fighting side by side against an ideology of hatred and intolerance to ensure that the 21st century will be one of liberty and hope.
Charles did not reply to this comment, limiting his response to projects for the underprivileged and fond memories of Winston Churchill.

The prince comes calling (drawing by Roman Gann, National Review, Nov. 21, 2005).
Nov. 3, 2005 update: Ali Sina proposes a reason for Charles' attraction to Islam, suggesting that he may be tired of democracy: "Does he secretly envy the Islamic system of government where the rulers have absolute power and can even impose morality on their subjects?"

Nov. 5, 2005 update: Sharp-tongued Julie Burchill asks in "What's not to like about Islam if you're the Prince of Wales,"
I wonder why Prince Charles seeks to big up powerful, theocratic Islam — which already controls so much land and wealth and yet will kill and kill to gain more — and not vulnerable, pluralistic Israel? Why doesn't he invest as much energy in defence of the persecuted and murdered Christians who suffer for their beliefs under Islamic regimes?
She then answers her own questions, much as Ali Sina does:
Well, I think I know why; because cleaving to Islam is the one way that men who wish to appear liberal and enlightened can promote reactionary ideas. Monarch-worshipping, woman-oppressing, non-democratic — what's there not for Charles to like!

Nov. 13, 2005 update: Charles' efforts to promote Islam does his mother no good in Al-Qaeda's eyes. In a just-reviewed videotape, the organization's number two, Ayman al- Zawahiri, calls Queen Elizabeth II "one of the severest enemies of Islam" and blames her for what he calls Britain's "crusader laws." In addition, he criticizes British Muslims who "work for the pleasure of Elizabeth, the head of the Church of England" and ridicules them for saying (his words, not theirs): "We are British citizens, subject to Britain's crusader laws, and we are proud of our submission . . . to Elizabeth, head of the Church of England."

Jan. 19, 2006 update: As patron of the Festival of Muslim Cultures, which its website describes as a national celebration of "the rich cultural and artistic expressions of the Muslim peoples," Charles will be visiting Sheffield soon. He will tour an exhibition there, "Palace and Mosque: Islamic Treasures of the Middle East," that launches the festival. The prince is said to be keen to see the exhibition. He will also meet school and community groups and watch a performance by a group of Muslim women and girls.

Jan. 26, 2006 update: The Prince of Wales expressed his pleasure today at the progress in the UK of Shar‘i banking products at a conference in London to mark the 30th anniversary of the Islamic Development Bank: "I am certain that with the support of the Islamic Development Bank my charities will be able to increase their efforts to address the challenges we face in Britain's cities and help those younger British Muslims who feel they have little or no stake in society to play a fuller part in the country's affairs by promoting community and entrepreneurial development."

Mar. 21, 2006 update: Charles weighed in on the Muhammad cartoon controversy, telling an audience of more than 800 Islamic scholars at Cairo's Al-Azhar University in what the Times (London) called a "serious, impassioned 30-minute speech" that "The recent ghastly strife and anger over the Danish cartoons shows the danger that comes of our failure to listen and to respect what is precious and sacred to others. In my view, the true mark of a civilised society is the respect it pays to minorities and to strangers."

Mar. 25, 2006 update: As the first Westerner ever to address the Al Imam Mohammad Bin Saud Islamic University in Riyadh, Saudi Arabia, Charles (as was the case in December 2004 – see the update above) chose to give Muslims some advice about modernizing their religion. Note the "we" in the following quote: "I think we need to recover the depth, the subtlety, the generosity of imagination, the respect for wisdom that so marked Islam in its great ages." He also said Jews and Christians should learn from Islamic teachings:
What is so distinctive of the great ages of faith surely was that they understood, as well as sacred texts ... the meaning of God's word for all time and its meaning for this time. … it was Islam's greatness to understand this in its full depth and challenge. This is what you ... can give not only to Islam but by example to all the other children of Abraham.

Oct. 31, 2006 update: There's been a strong reaction to a Kuwait News Agency report that "Prince Charles Tuesday said that the world problems could be resolve by following Islamic teachings, as Islam is a religion of peace and brotherhood." But a look at the speech in question, to the Fatima Jinnah Women University in Rawalpindi, Pakistan, finds no such statement. All Charles did was to quote the Koran in a favorable way in the context of a new-agey-style discussion of the Planet Earth:

This planet's survival will depend on you understanding that you can achieve unity through diversity; that you can in fact build on living, timeless traditions that are a part of your unique culture and still be "modern". It will also depend on you realizing that the planetary crisis we face is so profound in its rapidly developing consequences that we simply cannot afford to go on squabbling amongst ourselves while we destroy the world around us at a truly terrifying rate. As it says in the Qu'ran – "Only they pay attention who have hearts; only they believe (or see signs) who have hearts." Have you seen the signs? Will you trust in what your hearts are telling you?

Nov. 6, 2006 update: Umree Khan reports in the Guardian, "Why Muslims love the royals," on the Muslim response to Charles and his family:
In the wake of Prince Charles's visit to Pakistan, now is an apt time to reflect on the strange hold that royals, and he in particular, have over Muslims.
It may sound paradoxical, but it's not surprising that when Labour ministers queue up to tell modest women to take their veils off, there is a special affection for a prince whose public utterances on the subject have been marked by a sort of bumbling Islamophilia.
Charles and Camilla's visit to Pakistan was a really important trip for my mum. She is obsessed with the royal family. Lots of mums are but, really, you have no idea how big the royals are with Bangladeshi women. My friend Koruna will tell me, "You think your mum is obsessed, but I bet she doesn't have a showcase filled with royal-family china like my aunts." Of course she does - we had entire commemorative sets of Diana and Charles plates, eggcups, the works, in our living room. "Yeah," Koruna replies, "but a whole showcase in a mud-shack village in Bangladesh?"
Thousands of households in the subcontinent give pride of place to royal kitsch, and that is as much the case in the volatile Islamic states of Pakistan and Bangladesh as it is in India. A survey of my Asian mates confirms this grim predicament - the royal cult, and in particular the icon that is Diana, is being propped up by Muslim women all over the world

Thursday, November 09, 2006

[My Family] Lebaran At Last

[Syawal 1427H]
Our family, finally, celebrated Lebaran or Ied Festival on different day. We, five brothers and sister were gathered on Sunday to celebrate Ied Festival at our parent home, eventhough my old est brother and sister celebrated the Festival on next Tuesday. They were fasting when we enjoyed all foods and beverages on that day.

We planned to go somewhere close to Jakarta but had different "feature" or games. I offered to go to desa gumati, a resort close to Bukit Sentul with a lot of feature and fun for kids. My family had to visit three days in a row, first to reserve and book the restaurant, the party with all my brothers and sister and the next day with my family and my parents in law.

All were enjoyed with foods, and various games, atv driving, flying fox riding and air soft war simulation. Pictures with all happy faces are below... Check it out.













Thursday, November 02, 2006

[Me] Tony Hayward & Me


A Picture of Hayward and Me, during his visit to my asset. Tony Hayward is the next sun king of BP after soon Lord Browne's retirement.



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[Oki] Al Azhar Family Day

[Bogor Botanical Garden]
Saturday, September 9, 2006
Al Azhar Kindergarten conducted annual family day at Bogor Botanical Garden. It was very fortunate for me that I re-scheduled my trip to USA from this Friday to next Sunday, so I had a chance to accompany my family attending this event.

We, my family and my mother in law, was attending this event and my family attempted to join all games, except me as I preferred behind the camera.

Zaki, Noval and Oki joinned various game, from transferring beans from plate to plate with chopstick, walk in a pair with wood sandal and drawing contest. Oki and family were posing after they completed the drawing. He won 2nd winner cup for this drawing competition.

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Wednesday, November 01, 2006

[My Kids] My Wonder Kid with Wounded Head

[Nirwana] Oki, 4 year boy, was in trouble couple months ago, after he fell down from bicycle. He has been riding bicycle since he was 2 and half year old, aspired by his brothers and his father. Neighboors know him as cute guy with multi skill and he is famous among his friends and his friends' parents, specially his girl friends.

Those day, he rided his bicycle surrounding our community along with his friends, from sixth grade to kindergarten. He rided on the slope road or down hill riding, as usual he will push his bicycle hard to move it faster and faster. Unfortunately, one of his friend - the sixth grade - stopped at the end of the slope. He could not avoid the collision and his bike break down while he was flying and hit hard the road.

We went to the site after one of his friend came to our house informed on this accident. Pick him and drive him to hospital. Fortunately, there was no fracture nor critical wounded but bruise in his face. He was crying when the doctor cleaned the wound. Later, we treated him with "Gamat Vita Gel", a product from K-Link to help cell regeneration. The wound was healing so fast (no more than two days) and leave no scarface on his cute face.

Oki with his decorated bike before last bike parade on the independence day. The bike was severely damage on his last incident.

After the incident, we bought him a new bike as he was struggle with no bike.

Noval helped him to uncover his new bike. Later, this bike was also damage due to crash with a car, but my kid was unwounded.